We believe transgender people and those who love them can easily and effortlessly meet one another.
It doesn’t have to be hard.
In fact, it can be fun.
Apparently, there are a lot of people in the transgender community who would love help finding love. Maybe you’re one of them.
With viral stories of transgender people finding their partners (mostly trans-trans relationships) those in the trans community could be swayed into thinking everything is hunky dory as far as dating while trans is concerned.
Until one thinks of their own experience.
Even if you’re a celebrity and transgender, you’re likely to be involuntarily, chronically single. It may be even worse for trans-attracted guys. Right?
We’ve gotten a few calls from transgender people over the years, asking for resources to help them with their dating preferences.
We’ve also received an occasional email from cis-men and cis-women, as well as transmen and gay men interested in transmen, asking if we can help them find compatible, quality mates.
The number of transgender women contacting us bumped up a bit after our post on dating over fifty. These women wanted to know if The Transamorous Network is a match making service.
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We’ve been thinking for some time of offering a service to help single people in the transgender community easily and effortlessly find their mates.
We know how frustrating it can be using online dating sites or going to bars in hopes of finding the one.
Make no mistake, those approaches can work.
But it’s usually no fun. And it’s far from easy.
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Long ago, Perry learned that when one person calls a company asking for something, there are usually seven people who have the same desire, but don’t go so far as to pick up the phone or write an email.
If this is the case in the transgender community, and we think it is, the recent emails we’ve gotten could indicate that there are a lot of people in the community who are frustrated, giving up, despondent and….alone.
We can help. We’re soft-launching a match-making service starting today.
Here’s our idea, give us some feedback.
An approach we’re so sure of, we’re guaranteeing it
What we’re planning is far from normal. But we are so confident it works, we are offering a money-back guarantee.
If you’ve tried all the usual ways to find a partner, remain single or are disappointed with your results, we think you might want to try a different approach.
Insanity: doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.
Here’s what we’re thinking:
- We know your daily life is the best place to meet your ideal partner. Actually, it’s the only place. After all, even if you are swiping right, you still end up meeting…in your daily life
- We also know you are constantly being offered by your Inner Being, the Universe and All That Is, everything you’re wanting (whether you believe that or not, that’s what is happening). The only reason you’re not getting it (“it” in this case being the person you’re wanting to be in relationship with) is because you are telling yourself stories which prevent you from meeting that person.
- For example, we just talked with a woman last night who has the story “everyone has flaws”. Guess what kind of people she’s been meeting? Alcoholics, emotionally unavailable people, gold diggers (she’s apparently has some money).
- So it’s not the unavailability of people who want to be with you that’s the problem. They are out there. And they want to be with you. The problem is the stories you’re telling. They are creating situations where you meet people consistent with those stories. The people in those situations match those stories too.
So given these premises, here’s our plan:
- For a reasonable monthly fee, we’ll offer one-hour weekly group sessions in which we’ll help you examine your stories, then replace those stories with stories more consistent and supportive of what you want. Interestingly, the evidence we’ve produced in our lives is that when you do this, not only do people start coming out of the woodwork, every other aspect of life gets better too.
- The weekly sessions are casual, guided conversations where we talk with you about what’s happening in your life. It’s impossible to talk about what’s happening and not have your stories surface.
- Then we will show you how to easily create new stories consistent with what you’re wanting. The advantage of group sessions is we can do them for less money per person and you benefit from hearing other people’s experiences.
- For those who aren’t comfortable talking in a group, we are going to offer one-hour 1:1 sessions. However, it should be obvious those will cost more because the one hour is for one person, instead of many people. 10 people paying a little for the same hour is better (cost wise) than one person having to pay a lot. That makes sense, right?
- After each session, you’ll be encouraged to go about your daily life. With guidance from the sessions you’ll be able to see the signs in your life experience indicating that your life is shifting. Over time, as you get better seeing the signs and telling better stories, you will naturally and effortlessly begin having conversations you haven’t had before with people you haven’t met before.
- We’ll also offer a Facebook Group or perhaps a more private group online for you to connect with your fellow group session participants outside of the one-hour sessions, share your successes and your experiences along your path.
Who knows, you could even find your match in the group sessions. Although we won’t encourage that for reasons that will become obvious in the sessions.
Essentially, we’re offering a fun, super-easy opportunity to meet your ideal partner in a natural setting (your life) where you don’t have to worry about fake photos, inaccurate or misleading profiles, creepy people, gold diggers or the inevitable yucky feeling that comes along with online dating, or going to bars or happy hours.
And, in the process the rest of your life will get better too.
And we guarantee it. So you really have nothing to lose.
Doesn’t that sound like a great offer?
So how much might this cost?
We realize many transgender people are under or unemployed. So we want to make it affordable for everyone. Obviously, the more people who participate, the less we can offer the service for per person. But to start, we think around $50 a month offers people a great value. That’s less than a Starbucks Coffee a day for a month.
So that’s what we’re thinking.
Give us some feedback. What do you think? Want to know more? Contact us.
Ready to get started?
- Subscribe to the service. Click the button below to subscribe securely through PayPal. This amount will be billed to you every month thereafter until you cancel your subscription.
- Once this step is complete, you’ll be redirected to a page where you can schedule your participation in our group sessions. Group sessions are currently scheduled for 5:30 p.m. – 6:30 p.m. on Tuesdays and Thursdays.