A long exchange of heartbreak and struggle that didn't have to be, but was. TRIGGER WARNING: some language invalidates and erases the trans experience. Be advised.
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I know when I freed myself of the confines of any label, my love flowed and continues to flow, just like Trevor's did for that brief second.
The best cis-trans relationships start with the self. From there, any relationship is possible.
Everyone gets what they think about the most. That's why I don't worry about my client. She's going to meet her match. I don't worry about knee-jerk trans women either.
At one time I tried to suppress this attraction in every possible way, but it always ended in failure (and every day, I am more glad that I did not succeed in suppressing).