Desires are good not "addictions". Attraction is good. It is not an "addiction". Love is good too and it is not restricted to just one person.
A transgender client shows how telling positive stories is not only fun, it creates £5000!
The best way: So stop trying. Let go. Have fun.
I like knowing I can tell stories about the life I want and watch life shape to my stories.
Whether you're trans or trans attracted you can have that joyful relationship and everything else.