Nothing ever goes wrong in relationship. It's always the interpretation which creates "wrong". Every relationship goes right. The question: can you see the rightness?
Happiness: The most important thing in life. Why? It's how you get a lover, how you find success, how you live happily ever after.
Feeling good is the easiest route to all you’re wanting. Including that relationship that seems so elusive. Want to find love? Start feeling good.
The shame you feel being trans-attracted rests deep in the vileness of the patriarchy. Like the quote says: patriarchy’s first violent act is within men.
It’s far better to relate to your friend from your only place of power: your connection with yourself.