There's no shame in trans attraction until someone who is trans attracted believes their trans attraction is wrong.
I understand who and what transgender and trans attracted people are. I relate to them from there. They feel that, then can't help but express love for me. I'm loving them after all.
Stories that feel good we should listen to, not stories from others that feel like shit.
Trans attraction can be a path of perpetual delight, but if you're looking to others for their opinions about what and who you are, you're just making that adventure harder than it needs to be.
A broken heart happens when I make my relationship with me subordinate to other relationships. That sorted, my heart doesn't break. And yet I love.