it behooves you to learn to accept who and what you are and live your life out loud. It’s 2018 for goodness sakes.
Not everyone is ready for this approach. By that, I mean some folks are just too deeply wedded to their stories, stories which convince them that life (as Remy has put it) “happens TO them”.
Yes, there are probably a thousand other things I could put down that would describe the fears, aspirations, desires, concerns, hopes and dreams you have.
And in giving that grace, not only do you free others to be human BE-ings, which is decidedly a process rather than some fixed state, you free yourself from a limited life experience where only those things you dislike are your reality.
Now, you may think you don't like the choice you made to come into the world as you are, but actually, you’re celebrating the fact in the eternal now that is your home.