Meeting your perfect match is easy. Once you figure out your old stories keeping you where you're at, then tell new ones leading to what you want.
What I am saying is, you are more free than you think. Even if you are in a situation that seems so bleak, you couldn’t possibly have wanted to experience it, you can find yourself in a far better place.
What if there were very good reasons why you came into the world as transgender or transamorous?