Tips For Finding Love And Acceptance In The Trans Community. Starting With The Men.
What makes Jaycee so freaking awesome? We think we know. So will you when you listen to our funny romp across her daily life, her recent romantic experiences, what she wants to be when she grows up and how the powers that be are helping make that happen. It gets real in this episode as the sordid details come-a-flying.
You make your reality. Here’s more proof.
Last week we posted a blog post about the future that is coming where Transamorous Men would stand up, come out, own what they are and, as a result shift society from their own powerful point of desire (desire is what makes reality). This shift would radically transform society in much the same way transpeople radically transform themselves to align what they are physically, with what they know themselves to be.
Of course, Transamorous Men are everywhere. And they are good, kind, upstanding, men of all economic backgrounds and ethnicities. If you’re not meeting one, you’re looking in the wrong places.
In that prior post we said “we will be eager to see the day when..” Transamorous Men take their place in mainstream life, showing that loving transpeople is as normal as breathing. That’s powerful desire. We actually wrote that post before we launched The Transamorous Network (we had written 25 posts in advance). Here’s what’s happened since we scheduled the post to go live.
We’re looking forward to having Micah on the show. We think our audience is going to love him. We already do. That’s because he represents to us our desires being fulfilled. As we knew it would.
In our latest episode: Remy and Shannon pump Perry up and we talk about approaching transwomen, attraction, confidence and not giving a fuck about what other people think. You can also listen to the podcast on iTunes, and Google Play (Android).
We’re happy to report that The Transwoman’s Guide to Finding Your Ideal Partner is near finished. It just needs to complete the final editing process, then it will be live.
We’re excited to share this guide, complete with worksheets so transwomen who are struggling finding love in relationship can finally resolve that situation. Too many times we’ve heard or read or watched on YouTube sad stories of transwomen who have created realities wherein they can’t find a man, date women because they can’t find a man, suffer emotionally because they think there are no men out there who would be willing to date them.
We’re here to say all that is only true to the degree it is a persistent belief! Life is meant to be fun. That includes seeing live hand to you on a silver platter everything you desire, including love in relationship.
The Transwoman’s Guide is the first step to realizing the love of your desire. If you’re a transwoman who has struggled or is struggling now to find a partner. Be prepared for all that to end. Your partner is on the way. You’re just forestalling the rendezvous because of the thoughts you think.
We’ll post another announcement once the guide is live.
I’m eager for the day when more transamorous men are out and open about their romantic attraction to transwomen. I’m certainly doing my part, with this blog, my new podcast and the fledgling YouTube Channel. I recently sent invitations to like ten men I’ve seen online in various websites, sharing their interest in transwomen via M4T posts. So far not one has accepted the invitation or even replied.
There’s a reason I call The Man’s Guide To Finding Your Transgender Partner “The Man’s” guide. To quote directly from the guide:
It’s called “The man’s guide to finding a transgender partner” for a reason. Getting what you want means embracing who you are in all your glorious authenticity. It takes courage, persistence, patience, self-awareness. You must overcome those fears. Good news is the Universe is standing by to back you up. The results you produce will be worth it.
A “man” in today’s world is not the same “man” that you’ve learned in school, from family or books and movies. A “man” in this case is someone who lives life authentically, on his own terms, who doesn’t give a shit what others think, and has an optimistic, constructive perspective on the life he sees and is creating.
Don’t worry if this isn’t you. Within every male is a man waiting to get out. The process outlined in this book is a great way of freeing your authentic manhood. That’s because living authentically and pursuing your dream will require you to develop those characteristics listed above.
I know there are men who are married to transwomen. I know there are men who are dating transwomen. I know there are at least two men who are being authentic about their attraction to transwomen without a care for what the world thinks of them.
The momentum already has begun. Soon there will be thousands of men, tens of thousands, out and proud about who they love and who they are.
Transwomen and the entire trans community will be so much better off when that day comes. And it is coming.