It doesn’t get any better than this

IMG_0006When you realize you are the creator of your life, as well as the person through which your life is “made”, you come to find, watching how your life gradually shifts to match your desires, that there is nothing you can’t do. Nothing you can’t be. Nothing you can’t have.

How cool is that?

Because we know we create our reality, we are living an adventurous life, tackling adventurous goals. One of those goals is creating a new system were everyone’s needs (food, clothing, shelter, education and healthcare) are provided to all at no cost. We started this project with an intention (our story), a focused desire to make it happen. When the idea came, we were thrilled with it (the first evidence of physical reality matching our desire). From there we began listening to our inner being for clues on what action to take, taking only that action that felt inspired.

That was three years ago. Today, we have a world-wide movement. Thousands of people around the world (on nearly every continent except South America, Africa, and the poles) are working to make the idea a reality. In two weeks we’ll be on the radio (for the third time) being interviewed about the work. We’ve been flown to Greece to give a speech about the work, we even have people giving us money to make sure the work happens. The number of people giving us money has quadrupled in the last six months. And this is just the beginning.

There is nothing you can’t have. You can have anything you want in your life. It’s your life! Life is supposed to be fun. You are supposed to live a happy life where all your dreams are fulfilled. If you’re a Transamorous Man and you live your desire for a Transgender partner in the shadows of gay bars or in back alleys or hotel rooms or Craigslist, you’re doing your desire a disservice. Why are you doing that? What do you fear? You create your reality. The only thing you have to fear is the stories that cause you to feel fear because they are creating your reality. Change those stories, then take inspired action and your life experience will shift. You will meet wonderful transpeople, in the open. People won’t care about your choices in a partner and you can get on with living your life in full.

If you’re a Transwoman and you’re wanting a man to love you for you, you can have that. Perhaps your stories have you looking for love in the wrong places. Perhaps your stories have you creating rendezvous with men who suck (and not in the good way) or no men at all. Perhaps you felt you had to choose a woman because you believe (the story) that you won’t find a man who will love you for who you are. Change your stories and your life will change as will your opportunities.

When you realize no one can intrude into your life experience unless you allow them to (through your thoughts, your focus), when you realize every experience you have is a result of the thoughts you think, once you get over the resistance to those facts, you become truly invincible, impervious to negative outcomes. It doesn’t get any better than that! Well it does, but, you know what we’re saying.

Some my argue “well no one would intentionally creates negative situations in their life. That’s crazy.” And we say, oh? Is it so crazy to create negative situations when those situations, over time, become the spring board, the focusing mechanism of something better? What if those negative situations sharpen that person’s understanding of what they really want? Are those situations then really negative?

There is life to live. Joyful, pleasurable, wish-fulfilled life to live. All you have to do is see the world and yourself differently. Then live it from that place. We can help

Find joy in your self-acceptance

Live your life in joyWhether you’re in the closet or not, trans, transamorous or just know someone who is, the Transamorous Network’s first product offering can literally save a life (although that’s not why I created it). The Man’s Guide to Finding Your Transgender Partner,  published just this week, is a tested and validated approach for not only your personal happiness, but for finding lasting love as a transamorous guy.

I’ve created the guide based on my personal experience wading through my own feelings, then successfully coming to acceptance and love of those feelings, then believing in myself (and my transamory) enough to act on them. The process I outline in this guide not only will connect you with the transperson of your desires (guaranteed), it will also help you find peace with who you are as a transamorous person.

Skies the limit from there.

The guide offers background on the important role transamorous men play in the unfolding of human society and why now is YOUR TIME to stand up and own who you are. It then offers step-by-step instructions using a unique time-tested and proven approach for creating a life of greatest happiness, a life which includes living with the transgender partner you’ve been looking for.

Interestingly, the Man’s Guide helps transwomen find their partner too, although it wasn’t created for that purpose. I’m working on a separate guide for that.

At almost 150 pages, the guide goes into great detail guiding you on a path specifically designed for you to step into your authentic being. Interestingly, it’s approach also addresses many complaints transwomen have about us. So it is an excellent guide for transwomen to buy and share with their potential partners.

A workbook with four worksheets accompanies the guide (at a small extra cost). Use it to clarify your desires, and the powerful stories you have created which shape every experience in your life, including your experiences with transwomen. These stories, the stories about you, about transwomen and more, are the biggest thing determining whether you will end up meeting your transgender partner, or miss her entirely.

In the guide:

  • I explain why it’s so difficult to find transgender women in your area – if you’re having trouble
  • If you’re not happy with the transwomen you’re finding, I explain that too
  • I explain why you are your own worst enemy in finding your transgender partner
  • I show you the step by step process you can use to have the transpartner of your dreams…guaranteed

It doesn’t matter if you’re in the closet and single, in the closet and married, or out proud and looking, the Man’s Guide to Finding Your Transgender Partner can work for you.

I’m looking forward to sharing this gem with men like me who strongly desire a romantic relationship with a transgender partner, but are having difficulty finding that special person. Or the transamorous man who is in a relationship and facing difficulties. There’s no reason any more to stew in frustration, act out of your insecurities, or wonder why you just can’t find The One. This guide will show you how to claim your manhood, live your life in joy, and in so doing transform the world for transwomen everywhere.

Find out more here.

Don’t make them and they won’t

Happiness it the goalWord to this:  “Life is too short to waste while you lock yourself away and pretend your past and your passions never existed. So get out there. Do you. And be a fucking weirdo.

I really don’t like comparing people’s situation, so I’m breaking my rule right now: If you think being Transamorous is scary. Think about being a Brazilian Transwoman. I seriously doubt someone is going to kill you for your romantic attraction to Transwomen. Seriously.

You might lose your job. But if you got balls, sue those bastards for wrongful termination. Your friends might tease you, call you fag or worse. Fuck’em. They weren’t your friends anyway.

In most cases, no one really gives a shit who you love. Really.  Not until you make them.  You make them give a shit when you believe they give a shit.

So love who you want and get over the belief that other people’s opinions matter.  I know, “better said than done when you aren’t at risk of losing your job, man.”  Yeah, that’s true, I’m not. I work for myself.  It’s also fucking irrelevant.  What is relevant is what you want to believe because what you’re believing now is creating your life experience.  Keep believing other people determine who you are.  That’s what you’ll get.  Keep believing being seen in public with a transperson is too much to (emotionally) bear.  It will be.  Keep believing your parents won’t approve.  You’re the one creating that situation, not your parents.

Or…

Realize you are the one in control of your life experience.  It’s a simple matter.  But it doesn’t start that way.  You create miracles on a moment by moment basis.  You just don’t know you’re doing it.  Once you do, you’ll discover a whole different world and how easy it can be to live there instead of living where you can’t be who you are.

There’s a world out there waiting for you. It’s a world where you can step out of your limitations and live the life you’re meant to, the one you chose to live before you got here.  That life includes loving transwomen proud and out loud.

The only thing at stake is your happiness.  It’s yours for the taking.  Don’t know how to get it?  I can show you.

10 – In Honor of Aaron

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Wow. Another great episode on The Transamorous Network Podcast. Jessica joins us sharing her life story, a story full of tragedy, including the suicide of her friend Aaron. But like all great human beings, Jessica has channeled those tragedies into something amazing: her life. We’re all in tears at the end. We name this episode in honor of Aaron and the contribution his life has had and will have on into eternity. You can also also watch the show below.