The shame you feel being trans-attracted rests deep in the vileness of the patriarchy. Like the quote says: patriarchy’s first violent act is within men.
Our examples, our words can go only so far in convincing you. At some point you have to test what we offer. And let your Inner Being and your life experience offer you the evidence you need....to believe.
Your love story is creating your reality in relationships. What is your love story? And is it causing you to look for love in all the wrong places?
Some of the most successful men have mentors, who help them become successful. The phenomenally successful follow their Inner Being, their inner voice and, over time, they become phenomenally successful.
Following this process will, guaranteed, produce a life where you have everything you’re wanting. No exceptions.