My husband has had sexual encounters with trans women. He says it was out of curiosity and he has satisfied that curiosity but I find that hard to believe.
Many men who love transgender women love them from a place of healthy, wholesome attraction. It's great when such a guy writes us. Like this letter...
Transgender women: The man you want is there. A better question is are you a match to him? Let's find out.
Desires are good not "addictions". Attraction is good. It is not an "addiction". Love is good too and it is not restricted to just one person.
The best way: So stop trying. Let go. Have fun.