The best way to be trans-attracted and married: marry a transgender woman. Nothing else will satisfy. If you want to be married that is.
A broken heart happens when I make my relationship with me subordinate to other relationships. That sorted, my heart doesn't break. And yet I love.
The transgender community can do the rest of humanity (and itself) a favor by dropping this one bogus trope.
I know the secret to meeting the trans woman of my dreams is as plan as my moving lips.
Nothing ever goes wrong in relationship. It's always the interpretation which creates "wrong". Every relationship goes right. The question: can you see the rightness?