Examining your stories is the best thing you can do to increasing your happiness in your trans attraction. That goes for not only finding a woman to be with, but finding happiness and self-acceptance.
There are married trans attracted men who can’t leave their marriage for various reasons. They put duty and expectation ahead of personal happiness and satisfaction. A noble, if painful, choice.
If you troll Craigslist’s M4T sections in casual encounters. You’ll often find these men describing themselves as “straight.” This in my opinion is a result of the screwy perspective. I think the reason why these trans attracted men feel they have to clarify their orientations is because they don’t really believe women who happen to be transgender are, in fact women.
We’re tansamorous. Get over it.