Struggling to find love is unnecessary when you realize how to get it. Pro tip: It's not through struggle, hard work. And it's supposed to be easy.
Not everyone is ready for this approach. By that, I mean some folks are just too deeply wedded to their stories, stories which convince them that life (as Remy has put it) “happens TO them”.
They don’t know they are telling stories and that those stories are resulting in more of what they’re telling stories about
So many people suffer because they don’t know these two critical components leading to how their life unfolds.
But how would you know if your stories are leading you to what you want, instead of what you don’t? That is where negative emotion comes from.