Put simply, when you complain about not having someone to love, you’re putting your focus on you not having someone to love. So your future moments have a very high probability of looking just like that moment in which you’re complaining.
Your love story is creating your reality in relationships. What is your love story? And is it causing you to look for love in all the wrong places?
If your life experience is sucky, you’re telling sucky stories.
I know not all transwomen are looking for cis-trans relationships or validation from such pairings. That’s not the best approach to self-validation, but if you are looking for that, and you’re frustrated that you’re not finding what you want, you should continue reading.