I know when I freed myself of the confines of any label, my love flowed and continues to flow, just like Trevor's did for that brief second.
Everyone gets what they think about the most. That's why I don't worry about my client. She's going to meet her match. I don't worry about knee-jerk trans women either.
At one time I tried to suppress this attraction in every possible way, but it always ended in failure (and every day, I am more glad that I did not succeed in suppressing).
We get a lot of letters and comments at The Transamorous Network. So far, though, nothing like this...
The best way to be trans-attracted and married: marry a transgender woman. Nothing else will satisfy. If you want to be married that is.