Now, you may think you don't like the choice you made to come into the world as you are, but actually, you’re celebrating the fact in the eternal now that is your home.
Ultimately freedom-to-be seems to be the key here: while our society pushes against us in so many ways, ultimately, people must come to the point where “I am free to choose” is the guiding light of their life experience.
What I am saying is, you are more free than you think. Even if you are in a situation that seems so bleak, you couldn’t possibly have wanted to experience it, you can find yourself in a far better place.
What if there were very good reasons why you came into the world as transgender or transamorous?
Examining your stories is the best thing you can do to increasing your happiness in your trans attraction. That goes for not only finding a woman to be with, but finding happiness and self-acceptance.