Remy Ilmatar, Portland, Ore.

“I believe in magick, so I knew there was something to Positively Focused. But the results I’ve gotten are completely amazing and awesome.”


In her own words:

I met Perry before he founded Positively Focused. But the relationship we created since then has been based on the principles behind this approach. So I think my experience qualifies as what’s possible through Positively Focused.

When I first met Perry, I was generally unhappy with people and the world, particularly men. As a trans woman, I was pretty jaded that all men were scum. So upon meeting Perry, I really didn’t know what to expect.

I was charmed that he was interested in being my friend. But I felt a deep spiritual connection with him. One day over tea he said some things about me that rocked my self-image foundations. I guess you could say he broke through my defenses and rekindled my inspiration for life.

What happened over the next two years made my head spin.

First, I went from working in an ‘adult’ club, to getting a “real job” with no real effort on my part. It really was effortless the way it happened. I’m so happy with that outcome, and I can see how Positively Focused’s material, or rather my application of it, is directly responsible.

Next I was gifted a car. It was perfect timing at the time I needed one.

Then, I went through what at first looked like an unfavorable series of events. But those same events wound up providing me an apartment that was twice the size of the place where I was living. How this happened was truly amazing….

Next, something happened that I knew in the back of my mind would happen, but I didn’t know it would happen so soon.

First, men started looking at me differently. Then they started approaching me differently…on the sidewalks, from their cars in traffic, on the bus….then, I met this guy I found to be someone I really liked. After about a year of long distance relationship making; we are getting married!

All this happened in the course of about a year and a half!

I now swear by this approach to living. Positively Focused is the way to have a life you love. It’s easy, but, it’s not easy. I know that sounds contradictory, but a lot of Positively Focused sounds that way because it accurately describes how life works.

And when you get it….you get it…And by “it” I mean everything.

Positively Focused is for everybody. I mean every body.