We often get letters from trans attracted men thanking us for the work we’re doing. But this last month we got a doozy. It was such a wonderful letter, I asked the author if I could post it publicly. He said yes.
Put simply, when you complain about not having someone to love, you’re putting your focus on you not having someone to love. So your future moments have a very high probability of looking just like that moment in which you’re complaining.
Sometimes girls have penises and boys have vaginas.
Do the best you can to SLOW DOWN. Catch those complaining thoughts that have become automatic. And watch your life change before your eyes.
I’m thinking about a different approach to The Transamorous Network that I hope will make our work more accessible. Quite a few men have downloaded our guides. Quite a few people (men and women) are watching our shows. But I think we can be more effective as allies to trans-attracted men and transwomen. So I’m … Continue reading How we can help more…