A transgender client raves about results she gets through telling the right stories.
You get more bees with honey, i.e., you'll find your lover by first becoming sweet.
A broken heart happens when I make my relationship with me subordinate to other relationships. That sorted, my heart doesn't break. And yet I love.
The transgender community can do the rest of humanity (and itself) a favor by dropping this one bogus trope.
Meeting your perfect match is easy. Once you figure out your old stories keeping you where you're at, then tell new ones leading to what you want.